Wednesday, September 30, 2009 ♥
many things has happen.
iie dont know wad have iie done.
whyiie tat person wan bluff me. haiis.
izzit treat him/her nt gd enough as friends?
jus touch your own heart and think carfully.
got things happen, eu ask for help.
who will be th first person to help eu?
iie really dont know wad have iie done.
if eu wan keep bluffing me.
iie nothing to say le. if eu treat me as friends eu wont bluff me de.
end of sept le. time pass so fast.
2weeks more to mye BTT le.
need study le. jiayou for myself :D
time to post hw a cpl slp position tgt.
enjoy readding :D
How a couple’s sleeping position together reflects their relationship?
Have you ever wanted to know the meaning of the common sleeping positions of couples?
Style 1: Old Couple
The Spoon
“Semi-foetal, genitals against buttocks”, this position provides both of you with maximum physical closeness and is the most common sleep position for the first three to five years of a long term relationship.
Style 2: New and Hot Couple
The Honeymoon Hug
A position for the early months of a relationship “when you’re so deeply enamoured you wish you could fuse, or just after lovemaking”. Or it could indicate the couple are “overly enmeshed” and “too dependent on each other to sleep apart.”
Style 3: Future Planning & Promise
Sweetheart’s Cradle
A nurturing position when you are “literally being brought in under the wing” and a more intimate position than the Shingles because the partner is being held, like a vertical cuddle. This position reflects a high level of trust and strong commitment.
Style 4: Sayang & usually old man & Young women
Shingles
An attempt to focus total attention on a partner, even in sleep. Whoever’s head rests on the others shoulder is the more dependent and compliant partner. Or just shorter.
Style 5: Trust Each Other
Loosely Tethered
Five or so years into marriage, many couples feel secure enough to allow a bit more space — and comfort — into their bed. The emotional current is sustained by a touching hand, knee or foot.
Style 6: After a Fight
Leg Hug
Establishing physical contact indirectly. Such casual contact could imply that the couple are ambivalent about expressing affection or intentionally withholding it — maybe after a fight. It may also speak of healthy camaraderie.
Style 7: Women depends on man
Pursuit
If a partner turns his/her back and retreats to the far side of the bed this is known as a “freeze manoeuvre”. If one party then pursues and pushes up against the other partner while sleeping, that’s called “Illegal Spooning”. But it also may be that the partner who distances may actually want to be pursued. His or her distancing becomes an invitation – “a dance of the spoons”.
Style 8: Too Tired and Normal
Zen Style
This position is usually pre-empted by buying a larger beds to accommodate one or both partners’ need for space. “Touching buttocks allows for large-surface contact and private connection, but without clinging. “Like two circles, separate but overlapping, this position is a perfect definition of interdependence.” Like a Venn Diagram.
Style 9: Relationship Getting BAD to WORST
The Cliff Hanger
This retreating may be a rejection or it could be the partner just needs a good nights sleep. Maybe the partner who creates the distance is finally comfortable enough to admit they’d rather get a good night’s sleep away from you than cuddle up together, listening to you snore. The experts however, do recommend a “heart-to-heart to find out what’s really going on.”
Style 10: Man wanted to LEAVE a women
You can tell this position is trouble just by looking at it. “As if to escape from each other or as if you’re travelling in different directions.” This position may be “acting out an unacknowledged need to pull away from each other, from the marriage”. Or he/she could simply be a creative sleeper.
Mr.Right 
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